Mean People Suck!

Something that really rankles me are employers who think they own you body and soul. I've spent my time in jobs that try to possess you that way. All I have to say about that is here.
And while we're at it, why do people have to be mean? What kind of person rips someone's guts out figuratively, then laughs, and says, "Just kidding!"? Do people really think that's okay? Or is it just an overt expression of subconscious sadism?
It's very disheartening to be verbally eviscerated then expected to smile, laugh and nod and act like things are okay, as if their words had no impact whatsoever. If they didn't have meaning behind their words or intent to spark a reaction, why say anything?

Subconscious sadism. Hmm. Maybe it makes them feel better, but it makes me pretty sad.